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Showing posts with label babies. Show all posts
Showing posts with label babies. Show all posts

Saturday, April 11, 2009

Update on our Family

We made up nicknames for the kids since I can't share their real names. The two older ones thought it was to come up with "code names" for themselves.

"Matthew" (Baby J) has a whole repertoire of cries that mean a variety of things from "feed me" to "hold me" to "get this big poop out of my diaper!" (which means get it out without taking this diaper off me!) that we are all struggling to get to know. We laugh at the pretty explosive sounds coming from his tush region...fits right in with my dh Marty, "Vincent" (Z) & "Gracie" (S). He doesn't really like the pacifier, which I'm told is a good thing. Can't wait until it gets warmer to take him out for walks, don't know when that will be. He is starting to focus in on our faces...which is great! Marty got him a Tigers sleeper and they watched the Tiger's game together it was so cute!! Other than not getting enough sleep because he still has his nights and days mixed up, we are having a great time having an infant in the house.

Clipping Matthew's nails...I've filed but too scared to do anything else. I'm scared to death to hurt him. I've had many people tell me to bit them off...but to tell you the truth, that scares me too! He hates to be swaddled now, he liked it at first, but now it just seems to make him angry! So I don't push it. I was giving him a bath almost every night, or every other, trying to help him sleep. What do you think about crying... does it spoil him if I pick him up everytime he crys...do I let him cry it out?

Sunday, April 05, 2009

Sleep...Huh, what is sleep...

Yeah, well Baby J has his days and nights mixed up. Sleeping all day and staying up all night. Friends and Relatives have helped us out majorly. J is now 16 days old, and we've had him for almost 2 weeks. We now have almost everything we need for an infant. Wednesday, (March 25th) when we got him we had absolutely NOTHING for an infant. We now have a bouncy seat, a swing, a play mat, a high chair, tons of bottles and clothing... we are still needing a crib, so we will be getting one of those in a couple weeks.

Marty has been really great with him, helping with feeding, holding him and yes changing diapers! Everyone is really shocked, because Marty doesn't hold babies... but he says it's just because "their not his to care for..."

My other two foster kids, Z (8 year old boy) and S (5 year old girl) are just in love with him! Z help's feed him and they both have held him. Being the big brother and sister is an awesome job!